Last Goodbye…Vegas Style

Pa. Green Beret who died in Iraq had set aside money for bash.

LAS VEGAS – Shortly after Jeffrey “Toz” Toczylowski’s last mission in Iraq a year ago this month, friends received a message. “If you are getting this e-mail, it means that I have passed away,” the missive said. “No, it’s not a sick Toz joke, but a letter I wanted to write in case this happened.”

The Army Special Forces captain, 30, who was raised in Montgomery County, Pa., said he would like family and friends to attend his burial at Arlington National Cemetery, “but understand if you can’t make it.” The message, distributed by a fellow Green Beret after Toczylowski’s family had been notified of his death, added: “There will also be a party in Vegas with a 100k to help pay for travel, room and a party.”

Last Saturday, Jeffrey’s mother, Peggy, hustled about Las Vegas’ Palms Hotel and Casino, making final arrangements for a bash that drew family and childhood friends of her son’s from suburban Philadelphia, young men and women from his days at Texas A&M, and comrades in arms who had bonded with “Toz” on missions they could not discuss with civilians.